Somatic & Emotional Coach for Women

You've done the therapy, you know your patterns... but you're still in them.

That gap between understanding your patterns and actually being able to change them, is not a matter of discipline or self-motivation (you have plenty of it). It is because your patterns do not only live just in your mind, they live in your body. And that's what I help you shift.

I work with highly sensitive, self-aware women, who keep ending up in the same exhausting cycles of holding it together until they break, and help them find their way back to their own steadiness: not by feeling less, but by finally trusting what themselves again.

This is body-based coaching: not talk therapy, and not trauma processing.

The best way to experience this work is to feel it, not just hear about it. Book a free 45-minute Somatic Clarity Call with me: an honest conversation, held in the body, about what's standing between you and that steadiness.

Want a taste of my work before we connect? Root & Flow is a free recorded Mana Movement practice to release tension and stuck emotions from the body and reconnect with your natural vitality.

Welcome

I'm Ilaria

I'm a somatic and emotional coach, a guide for women moving the complexity of life.

I work at the intersection of the body, the nervous system, and the emotions. Not because it's a trend, but because it's where I found my own way back, through one of the hardest seasons of my life.

What I know for certain: your body has never stopped speaking to you. Your emotions have never stopped trying to guide you. You were just never taught to listen, and that's not your fault. It's what I'm here to change.

Somatic coach: Mana Movement & embodied movement facilitator, emotional embodiment

Transformational coach, trained with the Co-Active method

10+ years corporate experience as a HR leader and change facilitator

Choose yourself, fully

FOR WOMEN READY TO STOP POSTPONING THEMSELVES AND START TAKING THE DRIVER'S SEAT OF THEIR LIVES

Your emotions aren't overreactions. They're the most honest data you have.

Your body is always speaking. You were just never taught to listen.

Burnout isn't a failure of discipline. It's what happens when you've been last on your own list for too long.

Whatever challenge you are going through right now - be it personal, professional, or both - is a doorway for your transformation

Most approaches to change start with the mind. I start with the body: because that's where your patterns live, where your grief gets stored, and where your inner authority waits to be reclaimed.

This isn't about becoming someone new. It's about returning to who you already are, beneath the performance, the perfectionism, and the quiet compromise. From there, real change - in your life, your relationships, your work - becomes not just possible, but inevitable.

This is for you if:

  • You feel everything deeply and have been told you are 'too sensitive' more times than you can count.

  • You have done the inner work, therapy, coaching, yoga and personal development... but you still cannot change certain patterns.

  • You are burned out from holding it all together for everyone else.

  • You are navigating an identity shift, and are looking for grounded support from a woman who has experienced a similar crisis

  • You want a relationship with your emotions that feels less like firefighting and more like listening.

  • You are ready to connect with your body as a source of steadiness and inner wisdom.

  • You are ready to stop postponing yourself and start living your life on your own terms

This isn't the right fit if:

  • The idea of moving your body feels too much for you right now

  • You're currently dealing with serious trauma: I am not a trauma therapist. I would be glad to point you towards a more suitable therapist for what you need right now, please do not hesitate to reach out.

  • You are dealing with strong physical or psychological issues at the moment : what I offer can be a good complement to other therapeutical work but not on its own in this case.

your journey starts here

Work with me

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Becoming You

My signature 12-week journey to create long-lasting change: for women who've done the work and are ready for it to finally land in the body, not just the mind.

Coming Home to your body.

The Wave: your emotions as guides.

Your Own Authority: your truth, your steps.

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Emotional Alchemy

A deeper dive into the language your emotions speak. One opening call, two intimate 1:1 sessions, and my self-paced Feel to Heal course (also available separately) to work with between meetings.

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Live workshops and Mana Movement

Online workshops and live events. A space to move, feel, and remember you're not alone in this.

Testimonials

in their own words

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↓ MY GIFT TO YOU

Your first taste of somatic emotional release

Root & Flow

A free Mana Movement practice

to release tension from your body and mind, and feel like yourself again!

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What's included:

  • A somatic grounding sequence to settle your nervous system in minutes

  • Move through both guided sequences and free expression: safety and freedom in one practice

  • A simple body-based tool you can return to whenever life feels like too much

  • No experience needed — just you, your body, and some space to move

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